Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 7 February 2011
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Walsall, West Midlands.
Wedding will be on 28 July 2012 Walsall, West Midlands
emma89
Ok, So I've got 2 best friends, Bec and Kez. I asked Bec to be my BM but she declined cos she was planning on getting pregnant so didn't want to put me out by having to get a maternity dress etc, but still offered to help with the planning! And she has been fab, helping me with lots of things and giving me advice etc! And she's really excited too which is a bonus! So Kez is my MOH and when I first asked her she seemed really pleased! But everytime I try and bring up the hen night/wedding, she doesn't seem too thrilled, as if I'm boring her! So anyways, Bec text Kez and offered to help her with the hen night, taking the pressure off her a little bit, and Bec says she has some good ideas up her sleeve (she knows how to organise a knees up so I'm dead excited)! But Kez text her back saying "she's too busy and she doesn't want to meet up to discuss it"!! Now, I have text her to see if she's ok and see if she has things going on, but she was off work, really happy and looking forward to her holiday!! Previous to this, a few days before, she had been ignoring my texts!!
So I'm just a little bit hurt that if she doesn't have time to organise a hen doo when she's not at work, when will she have time?! I'm so angry!!! Am I wrong to be angry?! And what do I do?? Considering, I don't do confrontation at all!!!!
Thanks for listening xx
8 Aug 2011 at 16:18
• Wedding will be in July 2012
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Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 7 June 2011
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The wedding was on 11 November 2011 Coalville, Leicestershire
mum_of1@emma89 OMG uve got my MOH! I am in EXACTLY the same boat as u apart from it was between my best m8 n sister who to ask to be moh and asked best m8. Sooooo wished hadnt! I like u asked moh what was doin for me hen ngt and she replied i dont knw what u like and who to invite so moaned about this to my sis who then txt my moh to say hey babe id love help we the hen ngt when u want meet up or u got any ideas for my moh to TOTALLY IGNORE my sis!!! So after months of keep droppin hints to moh about hen ngt i eventually txt her and said look my sis said she happy organise hen ngt and she just replied ok cus i have no idea what to do! I also feel like u do whenever i talk to her about the weddin (which is not often 2 b fair 2 me she seems pissed off n bored about talkin to me about it! Every1 has told me that she prob jelous but for god sake she married already what she jelous off i was hopin shed b real happy for me.
I like u dont do confrontation but there was only so much hurt i could take but was slightly chickened n txt her about like i said above lol. Really hope u get it sorted babe as knw how shit it feels xx
8 Aug 2011 at 17:41
• Wedding was in November 2011
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emma82517
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Walsall, West Midlands.
emma82517
I won't worry too much Em, at this point before my wedding I hadn't even started organising anything. My hen weekend me and Laura didn't even start organising until 4/5 months before the wedding, Maybe it's not that she's not interested, but because she thinks she probably has some more time to sort all this stuff out? and don't forget, you've still got me, even though we don't see each other that often anymore because we live far away and I can't drive, I'm more than willing to help you out with anything, you know I'm always there for you?. Don't try not to stress too much, I remember feeling hurt when I thought people should be helping me more, but it all worked out in the end didn't it? xxxxxx
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