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On wedding day, Who hands out gifts to bridal and groom party?

23 May 2011  •   •  Question  • 
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candh
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 19 May 2011 Added 99 forum messages. East Sussex.
 i wondered who is usually meant to hand the gifts out to bridesmaids, page boys etc i have some family members squabbling over this matter. quite petty i know but wondered what people thought
23 May 2011 at 14:07  • Like
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missmaxine (20 years old)
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 15 June 2010 Added 321 forum messages and 10 albums. Danesmoor, Chesterfield, Derbyshire.
  • The wedding was on 11 February 2012
    Wingerworth, Derbyshire
 well at my parents and uncles wedding and a family friends wedding it was mainly the hubby, with input from the wife to correct him lol, i was only old enough to remember one of them but i do have vid of my mum and dads
23 May 2011 at 14:16  •  Wedding was in February 2012  • Like
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mcewan07
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 12 May 2011 Added 16 forum messages.
  • The wedding was on 1 August 2011
    Greenock, Renfrewshire
 couldn't help you their - im not giving them anything, i know it might sound mean, but after getting their shoes, dress, flowers, hair , make up, mani and pedi and jewelery (all of which they can keep) i really dont have any more money left that i could get them thank you gifts for - and since only one out of the 4 deserve thank you gifts they will not be getting them
23 May 2011 at 16:10  •  Wedding was in August 2011  • Like
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mrssteel2b (26 years old)
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 3 January 2011 Added 265 forum messages. Aveley, Essex.
  • The wedding was on 8 April 2012
    Essex
 I thought it was the groom, with the help of the bride? Every wedding ive been 2 has had the groom doin the thank yous, and the bride handin over the pressies xx
23 May 2011 at 17:31  •  Wedding was in April 2012  • Like
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heggy
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 16 January 2011 Added 172 forum messages.
  • The wedding was on 6 August 2011
    Devon
 It's meant to be the groom. He speaks for himself and his new wife (cue "Ahhhhh!"). His job in speeches is thank yous!
23 May 2011 at 18:56  •  Wedding was in August 2011  • Like
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quoth_the_raven (26 years old)
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 14 September 2010 Added 394 forum messages and 2 albums. Swansea.
  • The wedding was on 27 August 2011
    Swansea, Glamorgan/Morgannwg
 Right, traditionally: the Best Man speaks on behalf of the groom, to introduce him to the bride's family, and the father of the bride speaks on behalf of the bride to introduce her to the groom's family. These days this obviously equates to just making humorous speeches about them, since they've likely been introduced by then! Then the groom speaks on behalf of the couple to thank everyone for coming, for helping out etc. If there are thank you gifts they're given then.

A fair and common twist is, of course, that the bride hands out those, though, since frequently she's the one who knows where they're going and to whom. But, it doesn't massively matter - it's a tradition that can be adapted as you see fit.
24 May 2011 at 11:29  •  Wedding was in August 2011  • Like
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leighleigh (28 years old)
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 26 January 2011 Added 81 forum messages and 2 albums. Liverpool, Merseyside.
  • Wedding will be on 2 June 2012
    Liverpool, Merseyside
 i always thought it was the groom who handed them out, whilst sayig thaks for all the help and support ect
23 May 2011 at 14:24  •  Wedding will be in June 2012  • Like
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baldwin2bconnolly (29 years old)
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 2 March 2011 Added 119 forum messages and one album. Margate, Kent.
  • Wedding will be on 3 June 2012
    Westgate-on-Sea, Kent
 I thought it was the groom, but to be honest my H2B is soooo nervous already about speaking infront of everyone that we have spoke about me doing it, as i will have gifts for the parents as well as bridesmaids and pageboys... they are personal to me as well....
23 May 2011 at 14:31  •  Wedding will be in June 2012  • Like
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kirstysmith (25 years old)
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 19 May 2011 Added 311 forum messages. Oldbury, West Midlands.
  • The wedding was on 13 August 2011
    West Midlands
 il b doing it at my wedding as im also reading poems for mom n dad to say thanks x
23 May 2011 at 14:31  •  Wedding was in August 2011  • Like
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shell31
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 4 April 2011 Added 18 forum messages.
  • The wedding was on 18 June 2011
    Swindon, Wiltshire
 I was going to give out the gifts as my bridesmaids will have theirs the morning of the wedding so will best man and page boy so only few for witnesses and those whom have helped to give
23 May 2011 at 14:50  •  Wedding was in June 2011  • Like
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melissarose (24 years old)
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 5 March 2011 Added 197 forum messages. Helston, Cornwall.
  • Wedding will be on 2 June 2012
    Helston, Cornwall
 H2B and myself will hand out thankyou gifts together during the speeches, the bridesmaids/bestman/ushers will have gifts to wear given to them in the morning though by either myself or H2B. x
23 May 2011 at 17:37  •  Wedding will be in June 2012  • Like
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mrspage2b
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 30 April 2011 Added 73 forum messages.
 Im giveing my Bridemaids theirs while getting ready as they are silver heart necklase i want them to ware
23 May 2011 at 17:54  • Like
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essex_bride
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 22 August 2010 Added 880 forum messages. Wickford, Essex.
 like heggy has already said traditionally it is the groom as in his speech he is suppose to include thank you's to members of the bridal party ( Parents / BestMan / Bridesmaids and Flowergirls etc) so it is the perfect opportunity to hand out those gifts x
23 May 2011 at 19:20  • Like
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klt02
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 6 March 2011 Added 226 forum messages. Rhondda Cynon Taf.
 We are giving the wedding party their gifts on the morning of the wedding and the parents flowers will be given during the minimal words our best man will say!
24 May 2011 at 11:14  • Like
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