Problems with usher, not being a good friend

30 Aug 2011 • • Like

pinkladielouise	Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 7 May 2011 Added 13 forum messages. Birmingham, West Midlands.

basically he lives in Brighton and we live in Birmingham, basically he has known my h2b longer than i have and in the past caused us so many problems to the point of nearly splitting up he lied to me bout really nasty things my h2b supposedly said about me and we all fell out after my h2b hit the roof cuz he didnt say any of it the usher tends to have moments like that where he causes trouble, when he isnt causing trouble he is a lovely bloke, anyway my h2b is having his stag weekend in wales and have invited him but before we did h2bsaid he will have to invite his girlfriend aswell because he wont come otherwise so i said no chance she can stay at home because tbh i dont really like her n dont want her on my hen night as she is miserable and can be very sarcastic toward me, well i done the event on fb and invited just him and he has put maybe ?!?!?! to maybe maybe is a kinder way of saying no h2b is upset bout this now cuz he wanted him to come n he said well if he dont wanna go on my stag he dont wanna come to the wedding or in my words uninvited which is fair enough but i just want everyone to be happy but i know thats going to be impossible! what do u guys think ????

30 Aug 2011 at 18:57 • Reply • Like

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mshella	Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 26 April 2011 Added 67 forum messages. Warrington, United Kingdom.

@pinkladielouise if he wants to be like that then let him it is surrposed to be a day about you and your h2b and if he cant be there for him then he clearly has his own issues. I dont get on with one of my h2b's friends gf although she is comming to the wedding she is not doing the pre wedding stuff,my h2b has his friends and I have my friends.
besieds if she came on your hen do and you all had a bit to drink you may endup telling her and that would be worse.
dont think you should worrie bout it just enjoy you hen do

2 Sept 2011 at 08:47 • Reply • Like

kerrie666	Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 6 July 2011 Added 120 forum messages. Portsmouth, Hampshire.

@pinkladielouise Don't worry about it I've gotten over it now and realised it's about me and H2B I don't like the best mans wife she is sarcastic and really interfearing when we first announced we had set a date she was like you must have this and that luckily my H2b told her Me my mum sisters and friends have everything in hand now I just let it go over my head she is not invited to anything pre wedding after all she's not my friend she is my h2b best friends wife so don't worry about it do what you want to do. We now have the job of telling best man and his wife NO KIDS they have 4 she is likely to try and make him boycott the wedding so best get a back up best man.

2 Sept 2011 at 11:46 • Reply • Like

pinkladielouise	Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 7 May 2011 Added 13 forum messages. Birmingham, West Midlands.

thanks
@mshella
@kerrie666 i was just having a rant lol im ok now

2 Sept 2011 at 14:01 • Reply • Like

gina130284	Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 23 June 2011 Added 553 forum messages. Liverpool, Merseyside.

Any particular reason why he's your Usher?? I know of a very similar situation from the wedding I was MOH at last November! Groom used to go out with Usher's gf (years and years before meeting the bride) and he didnt treat her very well. She's never got over it tho and told the Bride to really think about marrying him! This obviously caused alot of friction between both couples and the Usher almost didnt attend the wedding at all.

There are enough stresses and strains planning a wedding without our so-called-friends putting added pressure on it all. Fingers crossed everything works out for the best chick xx

13 Sept 2011 at 17:47 • Reply • Like



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