gina130284
Hi ladies,
I was MOH back in November 2010 for my 'then' best friend. Since then things have happened and we're not as close as we were. When I got engaged in June this year she offered her hairband (which she wore at her own wedding) for me to wear as my something borrowed. I thought this was a lovely gesture and it may help to get things back on track with us.
She came dress shopping with me on one occasion and we found a lovely dress but it was far too early to buy anything. She's also came round for tea shortly before giving birth to her daughter. And I have also invited her to a wedding fayre but she already had plans to go to a Christening.
After all of the above I booked a dress shopping day with my honorary MOH (honorary as Im not having any bridesmaids as no friends are coming to our wedding abroad, just family), my MIL2B and my auntie. I asked if I could borrow the hairband to take and try on with dresses. She obliged but 6 weeks later I get a text saying she was hurt that I didnt invite her dress shopping but came to get the hairband, and hadnt asked her to do anything to help with me wedding.
I felt really confused to receive this random text message and the more people I speak to, the more people say not to borrow the headband, and find something else as it sounds like Im going to have to invite her everywhere. Thing is were not that close anymore as I said she had just had a baby (was actually breastfeeding when I called round for the hairband). The shop we went to in Birkdale is very small and definitely not big enough for me trying on dresses, 4 daults and a pram!! However I feel explaining this will fall on deaf ears!
Anyone got any advice? Do I still wear the hairband or get flowers in my hair instead??
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