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Stag night, i'm stressing

8 Oct 2011  •   • 
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mrsheaton2b
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 5 May 2011 Added 50 forum messages. Leeds, West Yorkshire.
  • The wedding was on 14 October 2011
    Leeds, Yorkshire
 my oh is on his stag night as we speak and im just stressing ridiculous amounts,cant bear the thought of other women sniffing round him,it makes me feel physically sick.i went on my hen do last night and he told me i looked gorgeous and to have a great time and i didnt even hardly talk to him b4 he went today and told him he looked ok when he asked (he looked great by the way,just didnt want to admit it) i saw how the women were dressed last night and i dont want them flaunting that around him when im not there to knock them out basically emoticon it sounds silly but i guess i do still have trust issues after my previous relationship and he knows that iv been treated badly so he understands,if we didnt get married until i trusted him 100%% then we wud prob never get married.is anyone else feeling the same or am i just a nutter emoticon
8 Oct 2011 at 15:51  •  Wedding was in October 2011  • Reply  • Like
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kristinanikita
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 21 May 2010 Added 119 forum messages and 2 albums. Newcastle, Staffordshire.
 I have only had the relationship i am in with my H2B so i have never carried the issues or concerns of a former boyfriend.However i still felt similar.We wer supposed to get married in august and like you my H2B told me i looked beautiful ect...however when it was his turn to go on his stag i felt so down and uncomfortable with him being out without me...he does get alot of attention from the ladies (may be due to his handsome rugged look and the fact that hes a strongman in training so he has BIG muscles) i have witnessed women throwing themselves at him..and although i have never had to step in as he has told them where to get off...it is stil something that worried me every time he goes out with out me. It does not help that some of his friends are a bit loud and livey and SINGLE!i felt terrible when he went out i kept checking the time and ceaned and cleaned and cleaned to pass the time which seemed forever. but honestly as always stag night or no stag night he was on his best behaviour! infact the best man complained that he wouldnt join in the dares and things.so keep your chin up and be brave..he must love you and respect you as he wants to marry you why would he ruin that in one drunken night xxxxxx
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8 Oct 2011 at 19:12  • Reply  • Like
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nextmrstaylor (32 years old)
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 9 March 2011 Added 710 forum messages.
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 @mrsheaton2b I worry when hubby to be goes out for a night out wether with friends (though that isn't very often with work and everything) or when he goes out with his family, but I always know that I can trust him as he loves me emoticon
8 Oct 2011 at 19:56  • Reply  • Like
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mrsheaton2b
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 5 May 2011 Added 50 forum messages. Leeds, West Yorkshire.
  • The wedding was on 14 October 2011
    Leeds, Yorkshire
 well he came in at 1am after an 11 hr drinking session,surprisingly not as hammered as i thought he wud be and swore on our childrens lifes that he was on best behaviour.Its all done with now but he has told me that we need to wqork through my issues,but he does understand why i am like this thakfully and doesnt just think im a nutter emoticon xx
10 Oct 2011 at 08:55  •  Wedding was in October 2011  • Reply  • Like
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kristinanikita
Member of finalstitch.co.uk since 21 May 2010 Added 119 forum messages and 2 albums. Newcastle, Staffordshire.
 @mrsheaton2b see it was fine maybe you can use it as an experience that even on the whole celebration of the so called lastnight of freedom he did not wander astray...so if you do ever have doubts again you can look back and think he is perfectly faithful. emoticon
10 Oct 2011 at 12:42  • Reply  • Like
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