What three things do you love about your husband to be?

stbmrscooper  1, he makes me feel safe and protected
2,at no point has he tryed to change me and still loves me to bits
3, he has gave me 3 beautiful children that drive me mad some times but are my world

lisajane85  1.he would do anything for me&our boys
2.he suprises me sometimes with gifts for no reason
3.he tells me he loves me on a daily basis

sharmzy87  1. He was my rock through the stillbirth of our son
2. He loves me for me despite all my faults
3. He's given me everthing i ever wanted in life

11thnovemberbride  @sharmzy87 Oh hun I am so sorry to hea you had a stillborn htb ex wife had a stillborn when htb was married to her so I can sympathise completley with you on that hun, if you ever need to talk you know where I am.

xx

sharmzy87  @11thnovemberbride Thank you, family have been great but especially HTB, he really has been my rock and the wedding has been a great distraction as it only happened last november...we have however decided that we would like to try for another one straight after the wedding, so im determined that this is my year!

11thnovemberbride  @sharmzy87 Oh hun, I am so sorry to hear that it happened only just recently at least you have a lot of support from family and friends but above all you have support from your fabulous htb. I am keeping everything crossed that this will be your year. xx

sharmzy87  @11thnovemberbride Thank you xx

11thnovemberbride  @sharmzy87 You're very welcome. xx

sheadpalmer  He only ever lets his guard down with me
He makes me feel safe, secure and loved
He loves ME!!

heggy  1) he is the perfect ballence of sensible and slightly daft!
2) he is unbelievably considerate - it still surprises me the little things he picks up on and makes better in my life!
3) I know he will always be there, no matter what happens.

mrsctobe  1 - he is my best friend and so I can tell him anything
2 - he works so hard and has so much time for everyone else
3 - he always makes me laugh even when I'm really not in a good mood with him

xx

kookiebek  1. He is kind and thoughtful ALL the time and is my rock.
2. I can be completely myself around him even when I do silly things and he STILL loves me!!
3. He always makes me smile and keeps me organised or rather organises me!
xx

jo_the_girl  aww love this thread can't not join in now!
1. He 100% believes I can do anything, which has increased my confidence
2. His hugs are the best when I'm having a bad day
3. He is very thoughtful, generous and kind to every human being on the planet

Ha, I wonder if there's a male equivalent website where all the HTBs are posting about how much they love us...... (maybe if we made it available on XBox!).

accidentallyme  1. He listens to everything I say
2. His cuddles are the best
3. He thinks I'm the best person in the world

jen150912  1. He's so silly and gets 'me', I'm totally myself with him
2. He has a face that I can't stay mad at
3. He tells me he loves me everyday, even when I'm wearing my joggies, hair scraped back, and no make up on x

katy3108  1. He loves me for who I am even when I dont,
2.He always knows how to make me laugh and smile
3. He's just perfect for me, I couldn't imagine my life without him

cicmatag  Ooooooh it's so difficult to pick only three... ok here goes...

1. He is a complete nutcase, just like me, and I can be myself with him.
2. He loves me for who I am, even when I have a b***h fit, and does not want to change me. (OK maybe he does but he doesn't dare say it)
3. He doesn't mind if I don't shave my legs for a few days.
only joking
the real 3: He would do anything for me and he's a very good person.

kirstysmith  i cant pick 3 i jus have the one i love him for him and everything he does

clareandjason2012  love this one! heres my 3......

1, hes so kind,caring and helpful helps his family and mine
2, he tells me every day he loves me, and loves me for who i am
3, he is a complete comedian, so funny and quick witted cracks me up all the time

11thnovemberbride  @kirstysmith Awwww that is far too cute hun. xx

brideofcharlie  1. He's generous and caring
2. He's sweet and cuddly and has a vulnerability about him that just makes me want to look after him - I call him Charlie bear - sad I know!
3.He's funny and has a brilliant mind - I could talk to him about pretty much any subject for hours!

emmax  1. The fact i can tell him everything and anything i am thinking or feeling and know he will always be there and listen
2. He has the best cuddles everrrr, i can just go into his arms and he can make things better
3. He is always there and supporting for me no matter what

Just love him to be honest, i actually could just keep writing but you said 3 haha x

jadebridetobe2011  this is a good one

1. he is soooooo funny and makes me laugh all the time
2. i can be myself around him, i know that he loves me even when ive got no make up on and my hairs a mess
3. he is my best friend and i couldnt live if i didnt have him in my life.

Like everyone else i could list so many more...............i love my h2b!!! xxx

annie_t  @11thnovemberbride

1) he protects me
2) he makes me laugh (and cry lol)
3) he is my MR PERFECT/FITTY/BEST MATE/PARTNER and i love him

kayubi  i love this thread!! its so easy to get caught up in the whole wedding thing that its nice to talk about and remember what (or more importantly who) its all for... ok heres my 3...

1) he knows my menstral cycle better than me so knows when ive got PMT, need a good cry or a nice cuddle.
2) i can leave him in a room with any my friends and family and in 10 mins he'll have exchanged email adds or numbers with them all to keep in touch
3) hes got just the right amount of silly to always make me laugh

nextmrstaylor  @jo_the_girl I like your idea about putting it on the xbox though I dont have that problem as we dont have any game consoles ( i'd probably never get him off it we did - maybe i could put it on the snooker game on the iphone, he likes playing that a lot, lol).
My 3 that I love about my hubby to be
1)He calls me sexy all the time and it puts a smile on me face as I never use to think of myself like that (use to have quite low self esteem before meeting him) still don't think of myself like that.
2)He calls me his little petal and asks me every day 'hows me little petal' ' are you wiltering today' - when he can see im not me usual self and look like i may start crying, which is what I usually do, then he makes me laugh so stop me from crying and then tells me how much he loves me which sets me off again.
3)He puts up with my moods, I don't have many mood swings but sometimes I can be really down for a day or two sometimes or I go to completely the opposite extreme and will be bouncing off the walls, and acting a bit like a kid whos been given pepsi max or an energy drink, and he still puts up with me though i can be quite annoying when im bouncing off the walls, lol.

I just love him to bits and couldn't of asked for a better hubby to be xx

katiedarlin  this is something our celebrant has asked us to do and she will read them out at the service neither of us knows what the otherone has written.
my computer wont let me open the file so if i remember
1 he always makes me smile he has so much energy and life
2 the way he encourages me to do things slightly out of my comfort zone which alows me to expereince some fantastic things i would never do without his support.
3 the way he holds me and makes me feel safe
i think i might of changed it a little but there are some many things

tassarella  Very difficult to just choose three reasons but I'll give it a go:

1. He is my best friend and has been my rock throughout the difficult times this year. Even to the point of being prepared to take on my 15 year old brother as our child because of the problems at home. He makes me laugh so much even when I'm tired or emotional or just plain PMTing and laughs with me about the silly things. He has never tried to change me and I wouldn't want to ever change him because he is perfect to me.
2. Whilst he has never tried to change me I think that being with him has made me a happier, nicer and better person. He such a kind and caring person that it would be impossible for that not to rub off on me. And even when I'm having a b*tchy moment he just giggles about it because he finds it funny
3. He's helped me realise that my dreams are possible and he shares those dreams with me. I now know that I will achieve what I've set out to and I will help him achieve his goals as well but even if there are struggles and even if things don't play out exactly as we expected/wanted I know that we will both be happy because we have each other.

bluloo  love this 1. heres my 3
1. he makes me laugh all the time with his strange little ways
2. loves me for me, doesnt wanna change a thing bout me (which is great cause i aint one for changing)
3. he supports me in everything i do and everything i decide
x

quoth_the_raven  Oh gods, only three? Although possibly that's a good idea - I imagine we'd be posting essays apiece otherwise. It's funny, though - I thought yesterday something like this would be a nice idea for a thread. Great minds, eh? Great minds. Anyway:

1) His mind, and its analytical nature. He never, ever stops thinking - anything and everything he experiences he wants to know why, whether it's a joke he likes ('Why did I find that funny?') or an opinion he holds ('But why do I think that?'), Best of all is that he has the incredibly rare ability to apply this to himself, though. He's the only person I've ever met who can openly and honestly look at himself, work out his faults and then eradicate or at least improve on them. It means if ever I have to raise an issue with him he doesn't get defensive or angry - he just looks to see if I'm right, and then sorts it out. And, of course, it means all conversations with him have a wonderfully intellectual edge, which I find fantastically sexy (I am massively attracted to intelligence. Sad but true.)

2) He is the most selfless person I know, and the most genuine, and the most caring. I have never known him do something because he wants to at the expense of someone else, including small things like taking the last chocolate or putting someone down to make himself feel better. He's memorised a lot of things about me that I don't necessarily know I do; somehow, for example, he always, without fail, knows when I'm thirsty, and gets me a drink (he refuses to tell me his secret). He knows my menstrual cycle. He knows when I'm having a nightmare, and how best to wake me up. He knows when I'm sleep-walking, and how to put me back to bed without waking me up. Somehow he knows the days when I feel ugly, and tells me I'm beautiful. And he always knows how to make me feel better when I'm down.

And finally:

3) I am ten times the person now than I was when I met him, and that is entirely down to him. I think the best relationship is one that makes you more than you are, greater than the sum of your parts and better than you believed you could be, and that's what he's done for me. I am a far lesser person without him. With him, I feel unbeatable.

Also we have identical interests, senses of humour, political leanings, etc etc. But, you know, I'm only allowed three. I also shan't mention that he looks like George Harrison either, therefore.

Ahem.